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		<title>Student Teacher Relationship</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Mar 2013 16:23:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kalu</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In order to diffuse  some tension and confusion within the Paldenshangpa community and dharma students at large, I feel there is a need to re-define the whole concept and relationship between teacher and student as least within our Paldenshangpa lineage ...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: TimesNewRomanPSMT, serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">In order to diffuse  some tension and confusion within the Paldenshangpa community and dharma students at large, I feel there is a need to re-define the whole concept and relationship between teacher and student as least within our Paldenshangpa lineage . </span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: small; font-family: TimesNewRomanPSMT, serif;">In general terms, the concept of “master” and “disciple” fosters a certain rigidity and exclusiveness that may mislead students as well as teachers. Students may tend to abdicate personal responsibility for their spiritual path and develop a personal attachment to “my master” or “my lama”. Teachers may subsequently be seduced by the illusion of spiritual authority associated with the idea of “my disciple” or “my student”. Both cases result in an unhealthy attachment and co-dependency which can become an obstacle to spiritual independence, personal empowerment, and natural awakening which are the actual point of our buddhist path.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: TimesNewRomanPSMT, serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Once such co-dependency develops, it often becomes impossible for other teachers in the community or whoever it might be, to give students needed instructions &#8211; the exclusiveness in the student&#8217;s mind blocking such advice. Students may of course respect different teachers according to their personal connections, but it is not appropriate for the student or the teacher themselves to determine the extent of the authority that will operate in their connection within the lineage. Determining and designating such authority is in fact the responsibility of the officially recognized holder of the Shangpa lineage. Such designation does not reflect a measure of respect , which is equally due to any one who has completed three-year retreat, long retreat or long study, but rather clearly separates <em>respect</em> from <em>function.</em></span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: TimesNewRomanPSMT, serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><em>Respect</em> arises naturally toward any individual who kindly leads us to understanding, be it in the religious, academic, therapeutic and social context. The over-expectation and reverence to a “root teacher” within Tibetan Buddhism can become so solid that even if the “root guru” makes a mistake, students may feel inclined to accept it blindly, losing their discernment which is one of the essential qualities to be cultivated in the Buddhist path. </span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: TimesNewRomanPSMT, serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">I feel it is important that students, as awakening individuals, learn to see their teachers &#8211; as great as they may be &#8211; not only as teachers but as human beings, and not idealize them beyond our commen human experience. This is an important protection for the students as well as the teachers.</span></span></span></p>
<p><em style="font-size: small; font-family: TimesNewRomanPSMT, serif;">Function</em><span style="font-size: small; font-family: TimesNewRomanPSMT, serif;"> reflects the tasks related to different needs of the student&#8217;s growth as well as the qualities of a teacher toward those specific tasks. If there is no specific function defined, then “lamas or teachers” tend to be considered equally qualified for</span><span style="color: #000000;"> any and all tasks,</span><span style="font-size: small; font-family: TimesNewRomanPSMT, serif;"> leading to either too much expectation from students or to a slide down toward</span><em style="font-size: small; font-family: TimesNewRomanPSMT, serif;">spiritual shopping </em><span style="font-size: small; font-family: TimesNewRomanPSMT, serif;">which happens when students start listening only to the teachers or instructions they like, instead of following the personal </span><em style="font-size: small; font-family: TimesNewRomanPSMT, serif;">spiritual guidance </em><span style="font-size: small; font-family: TimesNewRomanPSMT, serif;">given to them as part of their training process.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: TimesNewRomanPSMT, serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">In setting up this  <em>student-teacher configuration </em>for our Shangpa lineage, I wish to place the student&#8217;s development and welfare firmly at the center of our educational dharma activity while the four specific educational roles described below will surround and assist the students in their awakening process. Those roles should not be viewed as linear or hierarchical but rather as cyclic, part of an upward spiral that will continue to awaken, deepen, enrich, and integrate dharma comprehension, realizations and values in students&#8217; daily lives.</span></span></span></p>
<p>Here is how I would like to define and distinquish the roles of teachers in our Paldenshangpa community :</p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: TimesNewRomanPSMT, serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">-Dharma instructor/lecturer : <em>Correctly introduce</em> students to basic and common understanding of dharma principles and practices. Dharma lecturers may talk about classic and vajrayana buddhism in order to facilitate and transmit basic buddhist and meditation concepts within the reality of people&#8217;s life in their different environments; They may not teach vajrayana visualization or techniques, nor give transmission of refuge vows, or bodhisattva vows .</span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: TimesNewRomanPSMT, serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> Dharma instructors are naturally very involved in public and private questions and answers with students. These teachers use their position (function) to continuously refresh the student&#8217;s mind and reset them back to the reality of dharma in their specific life. By doing so, Dharma instructors foster openness and comprehension through the different phases of the student&#8217;s path.</span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: TimesNewRomanPSMT, serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">-Meditation instructor: <em>Carefully transmit</em> to students basic meditation tools such as meditative stability (shine), meditative insight (lhaktong), and open hearted compassion training (lodjong) ; these instructors may not teach vajrayana visualization or techniques, nor give transmission of refuge vows and bodhisattva vows. In general these instructors should have completed the three-year retreat and of course be accredited as such by the holder of the lineage.</span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: TimesNewRomanPSMT, serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> The role of the meditation instructor is to give precise meditation techniques related to mental stability and emotional management, making sure that each student can clearly relate them to their experience and life. They use a question and answer format to lead the student to a full comprension of the meditaiton mechanism and a total clearing of doubts related to the specific practice. By <span style="color: #000000;">doing so</span>, the meditation instructor helps students build the basic “mental” tools necessary to an effective and harmonious daily life as well as to further their deepening of dharma understanding and practice. Through regular checks and revisions, these careful instructors can continue to refine, refresh and reset the student&#8217;s mind toward the use of these tools and their purposes.</span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: TimesNewRomanPSMT, serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">-Spiritual advisor : <em>Wisely guide</em> or <em>advise</em> dedicated students through their spiritual path, motivations and practices, leading them toward harmonious development of wisdom in their life. The spiritual advisor is authorized to give refuge vows, bodhisattva vows, deep visualization or meditation instructions, and certain level of empowerments as per his/her accreditation from the lineage holder. By doing so, the spiritual advisor ensures the correct emotional and spiritual balance of the student, accompanies them in their <span style="color: #0047ff;">awakening </span> process, and leads them to a more refined understanding of the nature of their own mind.</span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: TimesNewRomanPSMT, serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">-Jewel of the lineage : <em>Provide</em> <em>ultimate guidance</em> toward awakening. This person is responsible for transmitting the full cycle of Shangpa initiations and practice authorizations; accrediting Shangpa teachers; and accepting Three-year retreat applicants. Jewels of lineage are also responsible for assuring the effectiveness of the overall educational process, and the fine tuning of both students and teachers, freeing their minds from the last obstacles toward their full spiritual independence and understanding. </span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: TimesNewRomanPSMT, serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">In the same way that I have received official letters of appointment as the head of the Shangpa lineage, within this lineage, any individual in a teaching position would have to receive an official written confirmation of his/her appointment to their position from the current  head of the lineage or one of his jewels.</span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: small; font-family: TimesNewRomanPSMT, serif;">Apart from the specific roles described in this educational configuration, there are many other important roles that enhance and enrich the spiritual and cultural life of our dharma community – be they of an artistic, linguistic, cultural, social, or administrative nature – it is very important to have appreciation and respect for anyone participating in and supporting the functioning of our lineage community .</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: TimesNewRomanPSMT, serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="color: #000000;">While dharma is still very much in a transition between eastern and western cultures. It is of upmost importance to cultivate a mutual appreciation and respect between Asian and Western teachers or students. Asian, or Himalayan teachers should do their best to teach in the language of their resident country and learn western concepts and ways of teaching. Western teachers should do their best to learn from the heart, depth and simplicity of the Asian teachers&#8217; approach. Both should make sure that students, be they from the east or the west, appreciate and understand the validity and complementarity of both approaches in a way that fosters dharma harmony in their heart and in the community. </span></span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: TimesNewRomanPSMT, serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="color: #000000;">I have deep hope and expectation that the setting up of this teacher-student configuration will enable students to cycle more freely and more efficiently through their dharma education, as well as make them gradually more independent and self-sustaining in their own spiritual path of self-discovery. Just as the internet transformed modes of communication and broke many old barriers to personal growth, it is my wish that this configuration and approach open and prepare our lineage and students for the enhanced independence and interconnection that are characteristic of this 21<sup>st</sup> century. </span></span></span></span></p>
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		<title>A Brand New Life</title>
		<link>http://www.paldenshangpa.net/2013/02/a-brand-new-life/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Feb 2013 14:45:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kalu</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In retreat we study and practice so hard that somehow the whole story about practice can become very solid,  almost like concrete. Breaking that concrete is the last challenge. Now it is time to just be human, be yourself, free ...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In retreat we study and practice so hard that somehow the whole story about practice can become very solid,  almost like concrete.</p>
<p>Breaking that concrete is the last challenge.</p>
<p>Now it is time to just be human, be yourself, free from all that package.</p>
<p>In fact a brand new life!</p>
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		<title>Back from the Himalayas</title>
		<link>http://www.paldenshangpa.net/2013/02/back-from-the-himalayas/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Feb 2013 01:07:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kalu</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am trying to bring you back to earth, bring you back to be a human being. &#160;]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am trying to bring you back to earth, bring you back to be a human being.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
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		<title>Myth</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Feb 2013 11:14:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kalu</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Many of the traditional teachings are like myth. They were created to help us aim very high. Once we aim for the best, we might achieve the average. But in fact achieving the average is actually the goal !]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Many of the traditional teachings are like myth.</p>
<p>They were created to help us aim very high.</p>
<p>Once we aim for the best, we might achieve the average.</p>
<p>But in fact achieving the average is actually the goal !</p>
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		<title>Arrived in France</title>
		<link>http://www.paldenshangpa.net/2012/12/arrived-in-france/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Dec 2012 00:26:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kalu</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear friends, After some delay due to my visa application, I have now arrived in France and Palden Shangpa La Boulaye. The program will now unfold as planned. For those events I missed as a result of my late arrival ...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear friends,</p>
<p>After some delay due to my visa application, I have now arrived in France and Palden Shangpa La Boulaye. The program will now unfold as planned. For those events I missed as a result of my late arrival (Paris and Normandy), we will re-schedule and will  let you all know once new dates have been decided.</p>
<p>I look forward to seeing my French and Spanish students in the coming weeks.</p>
<p>Merry Xmas!</p>
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		<title>Reflection from your mind.</title>
		<link>http://www.paldenshangpa.net/2012/04/reflection-from-your-mind/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Apr 2012 14:30:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kalu</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Reflections from our mind are what create reality. Reality itself just comes from our mind. At the end it is all just our mind ! So as a buddhist what we try to do or to find out is what ...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Reflections from our mind are what create reality.</p>
<p>Reality itself just comes from our mind.</p>
<p>At the end it is all just our mind !</p>
<p>So as a buddhist what we try to do or to find out is what is the projection of our mind and what is mind itself.</p>
<p>Looking at both the projections and your mind you can find out the nature of  it. But the reality itself is just you !</p>
<p>We need words to teach about and explain the truth, but for the experience we have to go beyond the words. As long as we look at the words we become so solid, and we are not conecting reality to people, we are caught by the words&#8230;</p>
<p>So my point is NOT to put a blind solid box over our head, but be FREE, be HAPPY,</p>
<p>Just be HAPPY !</p>
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		<title>1 to 1</title>
		<link>http://www.paldenshangpa.net/2012/03/1-to-1/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Mar 2012 11:33:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kalu</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My dear friends, any system,  any structure, be it material, politic or religious , first  it brings hope, happiness and stability. Then comes confusion, and for sure at the end of the road corruption .  It is just a matter ...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My dear friends,</p>
<p>any system,  any structure,</p>
<p>be it material, politic or religious ,</p>
<p>first  it brings hope, happiness and stability.</p>
<p>Then comes confusion, and for sure at the end of the road corruption .  It is just a matter of time.</p>
<p>Spiritual truth ,</p>
<p>as long as kept on a personal connection ;</p>
<p>a 1 to 1 connexion, not a 1 to a 1000 ; cannot be corrupted  !</p>
<p>Please be wise  !!</p>
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		<title>In this very moment.</title>
		<link>http://www.paldenshangpa.net/2012/02/in-this-very-moment/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Feb 2012 23:08:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kalu</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The different situations that we find ourselves in are our reality ; in that very moment Dharma can help us. Buddha did not teach Dharma to make an institution; his point was to give advice to help individuals in the ...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The different situations that we find ourselves in are our reality ; in that very moment Dharma can help us.</p>
<p>Buddha did not teach Dharma to make an institution; his point was to give advice to help individuals in the moment of their confusion.</p>
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		<title>Share Dharma naturally</title>
		<link>http://www.paldenshangpa.net/2012/02/share-dharma-naturally/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2012 23:08:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kalu</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Buddha did not intend to become world famous or to teach all sentients beings! He just shared dharma naturally, as a family. Just sharing the truth made him a natural teacher or advisor. Even if you wish 100% to help ...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Buddha did not intend to become world famous or to teach all sentients beings!</p>
<p>He just shared dharma naturally, as a family. Just sharing the truth made him a natural teacher or advisor.</p>
<p>Even if you wish 100% to help beings, you will be able to do only maximum 50% of what you think and really benefit 20%&#8230; maybe&#8230;</p>
<p>You can only reach a certain number, approach a certain number, but most important is to be close to them and do not let them fall into confusion. You can&#8217;t and should not classify, judge or compare students with each others. No rich or poor, no black or white, no eastern or western, no educated or not educated, no this dharma practice or that dharma practice, not this religion or that religion, nor this great master or that great master, this lineage or that lineage. This is exactly what we are all trying to free ourselves from !</p>
<p>Please release yourself from the idea of comparing. As long as you stick with comparing, even if you can fly I won&#8217;t beleive you are a true dharma practitioner. If you stop comparing you are a great master. Good or bad, move on with your responsability, move on with your life, move on with your practice. thats all .</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
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		<title>Our Three Jewels</title>
		<link>http://www.paldenshangpa.net/2012/02/our-three-jewels/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Feb 2012 23:08:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kalu</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Buddha taught three things: openness, stability, and to  recognize the nature of our own mind. Openness is accepting the guidance of a spiritual teacher. It also means a willingness to embrace reality &#8211; the reality around us and the ...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The Buddha taught three things: openness, stability, and to  recognize the nature of our own mind.</p>
<p>Openness is accepting the guidance of a spiritual teacher. It also means a willingness to embrace reality &#8211; the reality around us and the reality of our own confusion &#8211; and to embrace others as a part of our path.</p>
<p>As we become aware of our selves, we then need to learn stability, develop stability in the qualities of our awareness and in our values &#8211; motivation.</p>
<p>And this allows us to finally look directly and realize the true nature of our own mind.</p>
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